This married man makes me happy

love1Dear Bunmi, I’m a secretary in love with her married boss. I’ve worked with him a couple of years now and he’s 21 years older than me. This might sound like a cliche, but I have these gut feelings we have a real connection.
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Apart from the official lunches we attend together, he also takes me to lunch from time to time. Once or thrice, he’s even taken me to his club for drinks. I don’t want to be responsible for breaking up a marriage, but this looks like my one chance to be happy. I feel more for this man than I have for anyone else in a long time. Do you think I should take the risk and take things further?
Annie, by e-mail Dear Annie,
Why do you believe this is your one chance of being happy? Are you under the impression there’s a massive shortage of men? It’s true some men do leave their wives for women with whom they live happier lives. But a majority have the affair with their hot, young and eager secretaries, stay married and when the secretary starts to make too much noise about them leaving, fire her and get a new one. This man hasn’t even said a thing yet about getting it on with you, leaving his wife or even making you a second wife! He isn’t your ‘one chance’ for happiness but a ‘one-way ticket to misery.’ If working with this man is too much temptation, you might be better off looking for another job.

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